There IS another way to get weddings without doing bridal fairs/shows - earlier than expected delivery of a quality product.
It is my experience that any time I deliver a wedding production within 10-14 days following the event, or immediately upon the bride and groom's return from their honeymoon, I get swamped with referrals.
It has to do with the virtual "instant gratification" of receiving a video that the industry typically claims takes 90 days or longer to turnaround. That, IMHO, is totally out of whack and not realistic. Used to be that it might take that long (90 days, anyway) but with today's technology anything longer than 30 days (again, IMHO) is the result of poor work ethics or production strategies.
Since August 2005, following my open-heart surgery) during my convalescence & recovery I bit the bullet and outsourced a stack of wedding productions that piled up while I was physically challenged. I paid the price to have them edited, knowing that at the pace I'd slowed down to they would take "forever and a day". The people I outsourced to knew my plight, received quality shooting and audio (in MOST cases) and charged me reasonable fees, but most importantly they turned around my productions in less than 30 days each.
All of my clients had been notified of my physical situation, were understanding, but were also amazed at the fast turnaround given the situation. It was a eye-opener for me. I reassessed my work environment, my work ethics, my tendency (sometimes) to slack off when I had things (other than WORK) I wanted to do more.
January, 2006, I did a bridal fair. And another one that late summer, primarily to build up my base once again. The marketing focus was based on two things: quality production value (good to GREAT visuals and audio), and FAST turnaround. In fact I handed out a written guarantee that bridal clients would receive their finished quality video production in "30 days or less, or a 100 percent refund of your money" - we couldn't sign them up fast enough.
And the referrals poured in because the level of excitement was still high, memories were still high, they were not back that long since their honeymoon, and they couldn't wait to share their video with their friends, family and other members of the bridal party. I eventually discontinued the written guarantee - OF COURSE, it would make ANY sane business person more than nervous - but I never had to refund a dime!
The guarantee was MY incentive to get the work done in good time. It helped me hone my editing and post production skill levels, and it generated an edge for me against the rest of the field - NOBODY in the business is/was nor remains willing to give such a written guarantee. If you can commit to quality production and timely delivery you WILL never need to work another bridal fair due to the bounty of referrals you will receive.
Get 'em while they're hot!