Too Sents
I concur with Phil that visual media is the way to go for picking up tips.
You are Very into books! I've had this same problem at times. Don't know that there are any true guru's out there that really outshine all of the other guru's; e.g., like Peter Drucker or Tom Peters dominated progressive thinking in the field of "management" for years, decades in case of Drucker.
I still return to the National Geo Photo Guides for tips on lighting and composition, for stills, but a lot of this applies; and to Truffaut's book on Hitchcock to fathom what good editing is and what it can do to the brain of an audience. These are still great references.
I would suggest this, if you are spending 2 hours per night on reading about it, you should cut back to 30 minutes and spend the other 1.5 hours on shooting. Then, watch your footage. I spend a lot of time shooting bands (paid and for fun). Then I spend a lot of time watching my footage, too much actually, because I get sheer enjoyment out of it. Everytime I watch, I discover subtle things I did that I will try to do more of; and, oh yes, little goofs, when I was not concentrating for 10 seconds in a 30 minute shoot; or when my judgment/timing on a camera move was impaired by trying to multi-task; e.g., shoot and eat french fries; doesn't work.
A few years ago, I attended a workshop put on by Bill Campbell, a Director of Photograpy for Gus Van Zandt and a B-List Hollywood cinematographer. When he started out, he had a job shooting news. Each day, when his news gig was done or during down time, he would shoot and shoot some more, competing with another news shooter for who could produce the coolest footage that day.
If you want to work in the industry, there are two ways to break in (per union avenues) camera assistant or lighting assistant. I'd suggest becoming an expert in both. Learn by doing.
Also, find opportunities to use as many different cams as you can. This means that when an opportunity comes up in an old school production to shoot 16mm, you know how to use AND LOAD a 16mm film camera. One of the top shooters in Portland Oregon started off 10 years ago as the equipment checkout guy at the local film school. He got to know and play with all of the cameras. He took soooo much verbal abuse from serious artists when he volunteered to P.A. on every infomercial that came along. He was dedicated and is today laughing last.
If
http://www.48hourfilm.com is coming to your town, consider jumping in. A lot of pro's participate and they will use and have access to the cams favored by independent film makers at this moment.
Finally, I recall a quote from Bob Dylan when asked what it was like to write his bio. He said it was miserable because when he was busy writing about his life he was not living it. Stretching it a bit, but I suggest you minimize reading about camera work and triple the time you are doing it.
Best Regards ... TOM 8)