having tried the homemade device (made mine from pvc) I found something that that costs a little more, but looks more pro and has multiple uses...(making it more worth the trouble to carry around)
A sand filled bean bag, with velcro straps, and a manfrotto magic arm. placing the bean bag on one end and the camera on the other, adjusting the angle of the arm for best holdability/center of gravity, works fine.