the couple gets to choose 200 thank you mini dvd's. you set up a highlight reel. then take a camera over to their house after the wedding or even before (before might just be better).
If you've got time for that, you're not busy enough! :)
I even refuse to meet with potential clients. I don't have time to mess around like that. They hire us just from our website, after viewing demo DVD, they can telephone/email, etc. but no meeting unless its $250+ prepaid.
Between shooting a wedding every weekend, editing that wedding video, and trying to fit a business shoot or two in each month AND trying to work on our own projects, where am I (or anyone else) going to find time to play around like that, unless I'm getting another five hundred or thou?
The fact that we're half an hour from the nearest highway and that we serve an entire state, has something to do with it, but I doubt I'd change our policies even if we were in a metro area.
Wiski, if you've got time for all that, you may need to find an even better way to promote your services.